I never did find that paragon of 'rightness' but instead found that the single life was much more pleasant than anguishing over the missing X factor. Your man in black would seem to personify your ideal, but you can get the same sensation watching the beautiful actors in Korean dramas (Netflix!). Trust me. I'm 77 now and don't regret a minute. No way would I want any male messing now with my space and emotions.
I never did find that paragon of 'rightness' but instead found that the single life was much more pleasant than anguishing over the missing X factor. Your man in black would seem to personify your ideal, but you can get the same sensation watching the beautiful actors in Korean dramas (Netflix!). Trust me. I'm 77 now and don't regret a minute. No way would I want any male messing now with my space and emotions.
I may well reach where you are, but for now I will enjoy the search!